Saturday, January 31, 2015

Word of the Year: Accomplish


I haven't done a word of the year since 2013. In 2013, my word was perseverance. This year my word is accomplish. There is so much I want to accomplish. Since I don't do yearly goals anymore, I don't want to limit myself to say I want to accomplish X amount of things in this coming year. Instead, I want to accomplish all of my small, monthly goals. 

I used to think that I had to set goals every January. But, by June I never remembered half of them. Or some of them didn't apply to me anymore. Or some become very obviously unattainable based on situational changes. Monthly goals work so much better since they are small goals that should be accomplished in a month. Some goals carry over from month to month like "Stay on track with school work". That is one goal I must accomplish each month.

My plan for this year is to continue setting my small monthly goals. And accomplishing them. I just have to learn that I don't have to do everything all at once.  


12X30 Challenge January: The Love Yourself Challenge

Friday, January 30, 2015

5,000 Question Survey {Part 7}


Part 7 of this challenge includes Questions #201-250.

{Part 1} {Part 2} {Part 3} {Part 4} {Part 5} {Part 6}


201. Put these creatures in order from what you would least like to be reincarnated as (1),

to what you would most like to be reincarnated as (10) assuming reincarnation ended up

existing AND you were given a choice.

caterpillar, house dog, wild dog, vulture, male human, female human, oak tree, rock, manta

ray, dolphin


  • {From highest to lowest} Dolphin, manta ray, rock, oak tree, house dog, wild dog, female human, caterpillar, vulture, male human.  
202. What do you feel unworthy of?
  • Happiness. 
203. Would you rather be remembered for having done something for humanity or being a

really nice person?

  •  Being a really nice person. You can do something for humanity and be the biggest jerk ever.
204. Which do you value more: science or intuition?
  • Sadly, I study a science - Psychology. Yet, I value my intuition more. 
205. Your best friend and your significant other are in the hospital at the same time with

the same ailment. Who do you visit first?

  • Sorry, but my husband. It's just the way it is. 
206. Does the universe revolve around human beings?
  • Ummmm... Some think it revolves around THEM. But, I don't really think it does. I think humans revolve around the universe. 
207. If you are no longer a virgin, do you wish you still were?
  • Well, I'm 36 so no, I do not wish I were still a virgin
208. Who is your favorite poet of those who are alive right now?
  • Wow. I don't know if I even like poets who are alive now. I will say my high school friend, Jemayne King. 
209. What is your favorite song from the 90's?
  • Wow.... The 90's ended 15 (almost 16) years ago. I had hundreds of favorite songs during that decade. And I am supposed to pick just one to be my favorite for the decade? End of the Road by Boyz II Men. Maybe....
210. If you were in alphabet soup what letter would you be?
  • C? I don't know. I don't have a favorite letter. Maybe Z because it gets no respect. 
211. Do you believe in fairies, ghosts, aliens, angels, dwarves, elves, etc.?
  • Ghosts and angels, mainly yes. Dwarves, there is a condition called dwarfism, so yeah. As for the rest, no. 
212. What makes you want to be someone’s friend?
  • Their personality. My gut instinct on if I can trust them. 
213. Do you troll around the Internet harassing people anonymously for fun?
  • No. Why in the hell would I do that?? That is so mean!
214. Have you ever seen the movie A Man Who Fell to Earth?
  • Nope. Never heard of it. 
215. What is your favorite line from a movie?
  • "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." ~ Rhett Butler, Gone With the Wind
216. What's your favorite video game?
  • Super Mario Brothers. I almost want to find an old school Nintendo 64 because Super Mario 64 was my favorite game ever. 
217. Have you ever taken something that wasn't yours?
  • Uh, yeah. In some way almost everyone has. 
218. What is one phrase people say that irritates you?
  • "Can I axe you a question?" Nope, you cannot axe anything around me. 
219. You allow strangers to read your diary, but would you let your parents read it?
  • I don't allow strangers to read my diary. This isn't my diary because I don't blog everything. My parents can read this blog if they feel inclined. However, my personal diary is off limits to everyone. 
220. Hot steamy bubble bath or quick in and out shower?
  • Hot steamy bubble bath. I have taken a shower very few times in the last year. I am a bath type of person. 
221. Are you allergic to anything?
  • Yes. Fresh cut grass, pine, marijuana (yes, I am serious).
222. What is your favorite Terminator movie?
  • None. I hated Terminator.
223. What is your favorite fast food?
  • Raising Canes. 100% Raising Canes. 
224. What would someone have to do to get you to never speak to him or her again?
  • Betray me and my trust. You're done. 
225. Would (or have) you ever whip someone or be whipped by someone in bed?
  • Wow. Such a personal question. And quite frankly none of your business.
226. Have you ever said 'I hate everyone' and really meant it literally?
  • I have said it and never meant it literally. 
227. Why do some people want to get more money than they could ever spend?
  • Greed. To make others jealous. Stupidity, cause you can't take it with you and everyone left behind will be fighting over who gets it when you die. Screw that. 
228. Have you ever won a carnival fish?
  • Yeah. I guess it was more of a "fair fish" since I won it at the county fair. It died within a couple of weeks. 
229. Did it live more than a week?
  • Maybe two weeks. 
230. What's the best sounding accent a person can have?
  • Caribbean. Southern. 
231. What's the most boring thing you've ever read?
  • Beowulf. 
232. Do you prefer buttons or touch screens?
  • I have an iphone, which is touch screen. My lap top is touch screen. 
233. Do you think there is a lot of similarity between the Harry Potter books and the Lord of

the Rings series?

  • Never read either one. 
234. Would you consider yourself to be naive?
  • Not anymore. 
235. Which of your friends is most likely to go to jail?
  • Rudy. 
236. What is the smallest amount of money that could be in a public toilet that would make

you reach in and grab it?

  • Maybe a million. Maybe....
237. Would you ever wear real fur?
  • No. 
238. Arachnophobia or Eight Legged Freaks?
  • Arachnophobia! I want them things DEAD!!!!
239. What are your feelings about police officers?
  • Depends on who it is. Some cops are corrupt. Most are not. I have friends and family that are police officers. 
240. what is your favorite line from a song?
  • Oh, word... I have no idea! 
241. Is fifty dollars a lot of money?
  • Nope, not at all. 
242. Do you like the band Front 242 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Front_242)?
  • Never heard of them. 
243. Would you rather have fame, money, or self-satisfaction?
  • Self - satisfaction. 
244. What's your middle name?
  • Jane. 
245. What is the absolute limit, the craziest thing you would do for a million dollars?
  • Not sure. 
246. Are you good, evil or neutral?
  • Neutral. 
247. Should ebonics (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ebonics) be considered a language?
  • No. 
248. What color is your bedroom?
  • White. 
What color would you like it to be?
  • Don't know. It can stay white right now. 
249. When are you planning to move to a new home?
  • Unsure at this point. 
250. If you added up the cost of everything in the room with you, approximately what

would it come out to be?

  • Oh, gosh.... A few thousand.


Thursday, January 29, 2015

That Time I Was So Embarrassed...



I have never mentioned this event to anyone. Not even my husband. In 2013, we were in Louisiana on vacation. We were in Walmart. He was looking for a hoodie type coat. I was on a mission to find a belt for my son. I told him I was heading to the toddler section and would meet back up with him in the men's section. I quickly found the belt for my son and also found an adorable outfit for him. I went on my way back to the men's section to let him know I was done. I went right up to him and announced "I found what I was looking for and isn't this so adorable?"Imagine my surprise when I heard a voice that was not my husband's say, "Ummm... I think you have the wrong person." I finally looked at this person I had ran up to and realized it was not my husband but some random stranger. In my defense, he was wearing jeans and the same color t-shirt as my husband. I mumbled "Sorry" and quickly ran off. I found my husband looking for me in the toddler department. By that point I was ready to go in fear I would run into Mr. Stranger again....


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Thursday, January 1, 2015

January Goals


I tried to set easy goals for December. However, they weren't all as easy as I thought. 

First, a recap of December:

December Goals
  • Do exercise program minimum 3 times a week  FAIL
  • Lose 5 lbs.    FAIL
  • Finish current challenges (squats, lunges, calf raises)   FAIL
  • Blog 3 times a week in this blog     FAIL
  • Comment on blogs as I read them, not saving them for later.  SUCCESS
  • Add 5 "prompt stories" or poems.   FAIL
  •  Work on at least one of my novels.   FAIL
  • Stay on top of my schoolwork (this is very important! My Masters program requires me to maintain a 3.0 GPA or be kicked out)   SEMI - SUCCESS
  • Read 2 of the books on the ARC list (that I am behind on).  SEMI - SUCCESS (I read one: Gilded Lily by Vivian Winslow)
  • Add 5 movies to #23. FAIL
  • Add 5 bands to #26.   FAIL
  • Watch 1 movie for #22.  FAIL
  • Buy 4 nail polish (#86).   SUCCESS
  • Cook the amazing Christmas Day meal I have planned.  SUCCESS
  •  photo 7EF69B75-BC3D-414F-919D-6978B2F9AC3D_zpstsy3rdb5.jpg So much food you can't even see it all on my plate. Ham, Turkey, Mashed potatoes and gravy, stuffing, green beans, corn, sweet potatoes, and rolls. 
  • Actually follow through with the traditions we have planned to start (we are feeling like horrible parents because we have never really done traditions).  SUCCESS
  • Attend the husband's work Christmas party. SUCCESS

January Goals
  • Do exercise program at least 15 times this month.
  • Lose 5 lbs.
  • Restart challenges (squats, lunges, calf raises)
  • Blog at least 3 times a week in this blog
  • Comment on blogs as I read them.
  • Add 5 "prompt stories" or poems.
  • Work on at least 1 of my novels. 
  • Stay on track with schoolwork. 
  • Read the following: 2 ARCs, 1 book for the PopSugar reading challenge, 1 book for the Read Your Freebies reading challenge, 1 book for the Contemporary Romance reading challenge, 1 book for the New to You reading challenge, 1 book for the re-read challenge, 1 book for the TBR Pile reading challenge (approximately 8 books)
  • Add 5 movies to #23. 
  • Add 5 bands to #26.
  • Watch 1 movie for #22.
  • Buy 4 nail polish (#86).