Friday, May 27, 2011

Leopards Don't Change Their Spots.... Or Do They?


This going to be somewhat of a vent. But, it is just something that has been weighing on my mind. So, I apologize in advance.

We all have that friend. You know, the needy, emotional drama filled one that we just can't seem to de-friend. I listened for years to my friend whose boyfriend was just treating her wrong. Listened to her cry, scream, bitch, complain, etc. Then, one day they finally broke up. She moved on, made a good life for herself and I was proud of her for doing so.

So, she starts dating loser #2. It's not my problem. So, I stay out of it. Until she starts calling again complaining that he is treating her wrong. So, what can I say? I listen sympathetically, give her logical advice. It appears they are done. Over.

Then.... they get engaged? What? In the words of Deion Sanders -- "Hold on, Playa!" Oh, wait. That actually fits this loser too perfectly. He's nothing but a player. But, good luck my friend. Wish you the best.

Maybe this time, my phone won't ring with complaining or unhappy tears......

1 comment:

Lilscorpiosweetie said...

Been there done that.. I know just how that feels..